By: Kevin Grover

Kevin Grover — Tue, 25 Jul 2017 14:53:19 +0000

Articles like this are our attempt to raise awareness of this problem within the court system. The best advice we could offer in the short term is to learn to defend yourself and attempt to mitigate the damage in the future. To begin, we would recommend a couple of books by Bill Eddy from the High Conflict Institute in California. The First is 'High Conflict People in Legal Disputes', the second is 'Splitting'. You can order them from their web site: http://www.highconflictinstitute.com or wherever you buy books online. Another valuable source of information on personality disorders are the YouTube videos of Sam Vaknin, a self-aware narcissist. He has over 100 videos on the subject. Sadly, the court and attorneys working within it are simply not trained or equipped to first recognize and then appropriately deal with these kinds of personality disorders and the burden of proof required to legally counteract such mayhem is almost impossible to muster up and use effectively without spending many thousands of dollars in legal fees and even then there's no guarantee. Expect more on this topic in the future as we find ourselves having to deal with this more and more even in a mediation setting which is what prompted Lori to write this article. Stay in touch, and good luck! - Kevin & Lori Grover

By: Deb

Deb — Tue, 25 Jul 2017 08:17:11 +0000

Omg, someone finally understands the hell my ex has put me through. Where do I go fron here. He has literally backed me into a financial nightmare and the court system allowed it without even realizing it because of the inaccurate picture he painted one well mastered lie after another all designed to punish me for his feelings; despite my attempts to protect our children.

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