Comments for RI Divorce Mediator | RI Divorce Mediation https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/ Divorce Mediation Services Mon, 23 Apr 2018 09:27:27 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on Divorce Vlog with Lori Grover – Create a Plan – Week 1 by Julie https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/divorce-vlog-lori-grover-create-a-plan-week-1/#comment-832 Tue, 31 Oct 2017 10:47:20 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=6127#comment-832 Great video Lori!!! Wow what an amazing job and information you have given in this video!!!

]]> Comment on High Conflict Divorce Part 3: Co-Parenting Children After by Julie Guerin https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/co-parenting-children-after-high-conflict-divorce/#comment-829 Thu, 24 Aug 2017 03:16:05 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=6070#comment-829 This is amazing and hits the truth in so many ways people can relate ..

]]> Comment on High Conflict Divorce Part 2: Personality Disorders by Kevin Grover https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/high-conflict-divorce-part-2-personality-disorders/#comment-828 Thu, 03 Aug 2017 13:27:11 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=6005#comment-828 In reply to Dionne Drschenne.

Thank you, Dionne.

]]> Comment on High Conflict Divorce Part 2: Personality Disorders by Dionne Drschenne https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/high-conflict-divorce-part-2-personality-disorders/#comment-827 Tue, 01 Aug 2017 01:37:18 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=6005#comment-827 Excellent and immensely insightful article, Mrs. Grover. Thank you so much for this much needed information.

]]> Comment on High Conflict Divorce: Is It Anger? Or Something Else? by Kevin Grover https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/high-conflict-divorce-anger-or-something-else/#comment-826 Tue, 25 Jul 2017 14:53:19 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=5984#comment-826 Articles like this are our attempt to raise awareness of this problem within the court system. The best advice we could offer in the short term is to learn to defend yourself and attempt to mitigate the damage in the future. To begin, we would recommend a couple of books by Bill Eddy from the High Conflict Institute in California. The First is ‘High Conflict People in Legal Disputes’, the second is ‘Splitting’. You can order them from their web site: http://www.highconflictinstitute.com or wherever you buy books online. Another valuable source of information on personality disorders are the YouTube videos of Sam Vaknin, a self-aware narcissist. He has over 100 videos on the subject. Sadly, the court and attorneys working within it are simply not trained or equipped to first recognize and then appropriately deal with these kinds of personality disorders and the burden of proof required to legally counteract such mayhem is almost impossible to muster up and use effectively without spending many thousands of dollars in legal fees and even then there’s no guarantee. Expect more on this topic in the future as we find ourselves having to deal with this more and more even in a mediation setting which is what prompted Lori to write this article. Stay in touch, and good luck! – Kevin & Lori Grover

]]> Comment on High Conflict Divorce: Is It Anger? Or Something Else? by Deb https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com/high-conflict-divorce-anger-or-something-else/#comment-825 Tue, 25 Jul 2017 08:17:11 +0000 https://ridivorcemediationcenter.com///?p=5984#comment-825 Omg, someone finally understands the hell my ex has put me through. Where do I go fron here. He has literally backed me into a financial nightmare and the court system allowed it without even realizing it because of the inaccurate picture he painted one well mastered lie after another all designed to punish me for his feelings; despite my attempts to protect our children.

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